Forgetting what you put in it, meaning the vinegar, the fact that the oil is a bit high and the coolant is gone strongly suggests head gasket problems.
The parts stores sell a kit to test the coolant for products of combustion, which get in there via a bad head gasket. If that shows products of combustion in the coolant then you have head gasket problems.
If not, pull the intake manifold/lower plenum and check the mating surface where it hits the heads. The manifold is aluminum and the heads being cast iron creates a galvanic action at that point when wet and hot. So the aluminum gets plated off right there, causing a loss of seal on the gasket. If it is leaking at the bottom it will go into the valley and into the oil.
If that's the case it may not be the head gaskets. You could run a leak-down test on the engine to check that out and may not have to pull the heads, although at that point you are pretty close. Anyway, the leak-down test will usually show up a leak into the cooling system.
Gary, AKA "Gary fellow":
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