Never having owned nor been into an 8.8" rear I don't have any thing to go on. That being said, the MGB Spicer and a GM 10 bolt similar to the 8.8" had dished thrust washers on the spider gears. I seem to remember they had a bronze face in the "cup" that the back of the spider gears rode on. Maybe these (if used) need replacing?
The side gears on non-limited slip units also have thrust washers and since the side and spider gears are bevel gears, a change in either washer thickness from wear will increase the amount of clearance and play.
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