This is similar to how I have my fog lights wired.
They start from 87a of the high beam relay and their relay gets pull in power from the parking light circuit.
The fog light switch makes ground.
So my fogs can be on any time the marker or low beams are on, but shut off when the high beam relay is energized.
Jim,
Lil'Red is a '87 F250 HD, 4.10's, 1356 4x4, Zf-5, 3G, PMGR, Saginaw PS, desmogged with a Holley 80508 and Performer intake.
Too much other stuff to mention.