And now you've lost another hour....
Maybe you should check that the manifold and head surfaces are reasonably straight?
It doesn't seem right to lose a gasket like that in two years.
I usually torque in two stages, and then go back over it just to get a click from the wrench.
Jim,
Lil'Red is a '87 F250 HD, 4.10's, 1356 4x4, Zf-5, 3G, PMGR, Saginaw PS, desmogged with a Holley 80508 and Performer intake.
Too much other stuff to mention.